In part two of this two part blog series we delve into names and the most popular ones of 2013. Yesterday we discussed the boys – “What’s in a Name?” – For the Boys. Today, we talk about our girls’ names.
The Social Security Administration has yet to issue the most popular names of 2013 but Baby Center has reported their list which is compiled from more than half a million parents who shared their baby’s name with them this year. There are many parents who utilize these lists for ideas on possible names for their children, but there are just as many parents who use the list to avoid overly popular names. For Adoptive Parents, we are often given names from birth parents. This makes for some wonderful naming stories. Today, we reveal the top 10 girls names of 2013 and Sue Reardon and Michele Fried share the stories of how they and their children’s birth mothers’ named their kids.
We were fully prepared to incorporate whatever names our children’s birth parents chose, but they did not have anything picked out and left the decision to us.
Alexandra was a name we both like and we were still undecided on a middle name. It was tie between Jennifer (a cousin I had tragically and suddenly lost only three months prior) and Grace (after my grandmother). We eventually decided on Grace and called our Family Advocate to tell her. She also asked if we would be willing to add an additional name should the birth parents choose one and she used “Jennifer” as an example. Not knowing the other name we were considering, we immediately got the chills that out of all the names she could have used, she chose Jennifer as an example. Knowing my cousin and how much she loved to be the center of attention, we took that as a message from her. And our daughter was immediately renamed Alexandra Jennifer-Grace
We had a name chosen for our third child, Caden for a boy and Kayden for a girl. I had always liked the name Elizabeth so she was supposed to be named Kayden Elizabeth. But after the honor of being witness to her birth and everything her birth mother went through to bring her into the world, no other name would do. She was most certainly Kayden Melissa.
Michele Fried, BS
My husband and I have never taken naming our children lightly. In fact sometimes I think we spent too many excruciating hours that we found ourselves on more than one occasion with babe in arms and no name! I am happy to say after all these years, we genuinely love our children’s names and as far as I can tell, they do too. In our earlier parenting years, we strived to be unique but not too different, yet some of their names later peaked as some of the more popular names. Jordan for example not only became a popular boy’s name but a girl’s name too. Susanna Miriam (is a combination of both birth family and adoptive family names) and Alyssa was named by her birth parents. Our last four children, Eden (I fell in love with it, even though I found it in the “boy section” of a baby name book … I should say we loved more than one name, so Eden Ariella Sarah she became!). Next was Elisheva, a name given to her by her birth parents. Her nickname is “Sheva” which is the Hebrew word for “Seven” as she coincidentally became our seventh child! Zenobia (because we met someone years earlier with that name and filed it away as “maybe one day!”).
Though some of our children never could find a toothbrush or keychain with their name on it, they seemed to enjoy the story of how their name came to be. They seem proud to introduce their name (and nicknames) to others and have taken on a personality to match their special names!
The Top 10 List of Girl Names of 2013
And for an additional treat follow this link to Jezebel to see a cool .GIF on popular girl name state by state from the last 6 decades.
- “What’s in a Name?” – For the Boys
- Adoption STAR Families Tell How They Named Their Children
- Can you name the most popular boy and girl baby names of the last 100 years?
- Baby Names
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